Real talk about desire, boundaries, and everything in between — coached privately, one honest conversation at a time.
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Bondage practitioner, rope artist & somatic intimacy coach.
Kamaji is a bondage practitioner, rope artist, and somatic intimacy coach based in New York City. He co-founded The Library, a third space for art, kink, and wellness, in 2021 and The Ritual, a shibari & tea ceremony hosted in Brooklyn and Mexico City.
Recovering prude, mother of two, sex enthusiast and trained Dominatrix.
My training as a dominatrix taught me things 10 years of therapy never touched on — how to play, how to manifest erotic energy, and how to share it with others. Working with me is all about shedding shame and reclaiming your true, liberated sexual nature.
First off, it's fun! Sex is all about play. We help you reconnect with your playfulness and joy through sex — by removing judgement, stigma and shame.
Desire Lab is about changing your entire approach to sex and pleasure. We will never ask you "How many times a week are you having sex?" Sex is not about any one act, it's a way of living. We want to get you curious... and turned on.
We bring our years of experience in BDSM, kink and sex positivity and share what we have learned with you. We also bring our toolkits (both physical and psychological) to help you discover what you like, what you're curious about, and how to communicate your desires in a way they can be received and fulfilled. Together we use your unique erotic map to create rituals that will bring sex and play into your everyday, both solo and with partners.
Every client starts with an intake conversation so the work is shaped around what's really going on for you: a specific problem, a long-running pattern, a kinky desire, or just a general sense that things could be more honest and more satisfying. From there, we set a plan, meet regularly in your home, and adjust as things shift.
This is coaching, not therapy — practical, direct and focused on what you can change starting now. Skills will be taught, and homework given. 😉
Sessions are private, discreet, and tailored around your actual life.
